Showing posts with label Thoughts from Film. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Thoughts from Film. Show all posts

December 29, 2014

Patient and Kind: Church + Community in Lars and the Real Girl



Lars and the Real Girl presents a picture of a mentally ill man whose illness is manifest in a way that can easily create awkwardness for his neighbours, friends, and family.  In fact, his illness does create awkwardness for the people who love him.  Lars believes he met a woman named Bianca on the Internet and that he and she are in a romantic relationship.  When he introduces Bianca to his brother Gus and sister-in-law Karin, they are shocked to realize that Bianca is actually a sex doll.  The source of his family’s awkwardness in this situation is obvious.  What they do with the awkwardness is remarkable, however.  Acting on the advice of Lars’ doctor, the people who love Lars come to accept his bizarre relationship and support Lars in the same way they would if Bianca was in fact a real girl.  Beginning with his sister-in-law, Lars’ family, his church, and his community surround him with love.

There are spoilers in this post.